He concludes that expecting men to be loyal is unrealistic. Men love their wives and cheat. If they didn’t love they would have walked out and enjoyed guilt-free sex with another partner.
Evidence show men who cheat are romantically contented but tired of sex with one person.
According to another survey conducted by Ashley Madison (a global dating), 81 per cent married men surveyed had extramarital affairs. The survey was done on 75321 people, out of which 80 per cent were married. 61% of men don’t find infidelity to be immoral.
Men with extramarital affairs claim their affair proved to be constructive in their marriage. In many cases, affair worked as a wake-up call to repair the relationship.
Fascinatingly, over 80% of people surveyed had arranged marriages. The average age of men surveyed was 45. Clearly, infidelity co-exists with a large number of arranged marriages.
The most important question now is what makes spouses go outside their marriage!
For 36 per cent men, lack of sex made them look beyond while women have affairs when they feel they are not loved by their partners.
A poll on Toluna reveals that merely 17 per cent men who responded didn’t have sex while their wives were pregnant
Infidelity is not as simple as it appears. Most of the respondents who had extramarital affairs didn’t find infidelity unethical, at the same time they felt guilty of cheating.
Sexologist Dr Pant believes that most men have affairs because of monotony in their sex lives, or a lack of response from the partner, and in many cases, it is for variety.
